Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Peer Presssure: Sex

Many times your friend or even your boyfriend and girlfriend will encourage you until you want sex, they will pressure you and join a gang and surrond you until you finally commit to it. Peer's want you to do this so they can spread it around school and comfort you saying "I could never do that." They want the best of you and the best of you is inside, they want you to be mirsable so the best way to give in, is talk to an adult about and be strong about yourself, and if you boyfriend/girlfriend askes "if you love me, you would it for me." Tell her the real truth if you really loved me you let me keep my virginity until marriage, and other lines like that usally senses the Peer's that talking you into it will not happen. To aviod situations like this, just walk away and or change the subject your talking about. The next time you get in a situation like this, just back your facts out and talk your way out of it. Better to be safe than sorry!!! So the next time you think your going to pressure someone and they already said no, just leave it as that and don't pressure anyone else, its not worth losing a friendship out of. So the best thing you can do is just stay calm relaxed and when you mean no, you mean no and walk away. If the peers keep asking just keep saying no. Eventually they'll give up and you will keep your virginity.

3 comments:

  1. Peer pressure is such a bad thing. If I was able to get rid of it I would for the fact that it would save hundreds of innocent females or even males from having sex. I would have to agree with Matt with everything, and to add a little somthin somthin i would like to say that it is mainly the guys pressuring the guys. For us peers as we learned today in hault it is a felony, and could affect you the rest of your life.

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  2. I agree that pressure would save many inoccent people from having sex. And i dont agree with josh that its the guys pressureing the guys it goes all ways

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