Peer Pressure from Coaches

Sport coaching is often intense, even at the highschool levels, your coaches normally pressure you to the best you can. They are very verbal and usally always yelling at you, if your a sports coach, try to keep the yelling and screaming down along with the pressuring of the kids, their already doing the best to their abilities but encourage them at the same time. Many of the college coaches pushes them because they want the best out of them. Well at the college level I would hope they try ever day. But Coaches are constantly pressuring the players on diffrent sporting events to succeed, and sometimes that has a good effect on the players othertimes it has a bad effect. The good effect, is they get encouragement from theier coaching and that way they know their doing good. The bad thing about Pressure is telling the player they need to pick it up or else hes benched or hes done or what ever, and that but trendmenous amout of pressure on the kids to succeed when they already tried. From the professional standpoint, the players get bonus's if they do something great, which is pressuring them somewhat, some of them don't even try if they are doing terriable. My overall view is don't ever pressure your players unless your doing it in a positive way.

Peer Presssure: Sex

Many times your friend or even your boyfriend and girlfriend will encourage you until you want sex, they will pressure you and join a gang and surrond you until you finally commit to it. Peer's want you to do this so they can spread it around school and comfort you saying "I could never do that." They want the best of you and the best of you is inside, they want you to be mirsable so the best way to give in, is talk to an adult about and be strong about yourself, and if you boyfriend/girlfriend askes "if you love me, you would it for me." Tell her the real truth if you really loved me you let me keep my virginity until marriage, and other lines like that usally senses the Peer's that talking you into it will not happen. To aviod situations like this, just walk away and or change the subject your talking about. The next time you get in a situation like this, just back your facts out and talk your way out of it. Better to be safe than sorry!!! So the next time you think your going to pressure someone and they already said no, just leave it as that and don't pressure anyone else, its not worth losing a friendship out of. So the best thing you can do is just stay calm relaxed and when you mean no, you mean no and walk away. If the peers keep asking just keep saying no. Eventually they'll give up and you will keep your virginity.

Indirect Peer Pressure

Indirect Peer Pressure is caused mainly by media, the media does this through many ways, TV radio, internet and even Magzines are indirect media. These people who do the Tevevison shows mainly focus on an age group much like a Cigarette Ad, and they attract people and it makes people think that lots of other people are doing it so I should as well. Then there are good peer Pressure from Tevelvision and ad's and they should do something to benefit a program and such.
Many people suffer from this because of the way they do it, the media drags them, preatty soon their friends drags them into it. Media tends to make you want to do it, in the short run it works out but in the long run it damages you and hurts you as well. The media will keep doing it more and more to infest your mind with bad actions and they will keep doing it until you finally do it. The media, always find something you want like a toy or you feeling depress they will use something you want and fix it up to get you hooked on something and then you can't stop. The media has used articales and drugs, newspapers Ads of Cigarettes and wants people to do it, even though it harms them, the media is a terriable thing think about. Best Help, Walk away from ads you know will hurt you, because it will hurt you!

Peer Pressure From Parents: School and Sporting Events

Most parents usally give messages to their children about everything, most of it is healthy Peer Pressure. Allthough their are many parents who push thier kids in atheletic's and giving them bad Peer pressure. I've learned that kids that recieved healthy Peer Pressure are more likely to succeed in atheletic's and Acdemic's over the kids who recieve either no Peer Pressure, or bad Peer Pressure. Parents their kids to all sorts of things, from succeeding in school to excelling in sports, but this behavior can be deadly, many parents need to be aware that isn't good to put pressure on a child everyday to excell. It puts stress on the child itself and makes him feel uncomfortable and very nevrous. Always encourage your child but don't ever over encourage which also makes them feel oveprotective and their self confidence goes down. So please Encourage your child or children if they like something you don't, don't wear that down, maybe you can get yourself into it and enjoy it. Don't ever take it personailty when your child has an off game or gets a bad score on a test, encourage them, help them learn, it will really build their peer pressure and unstanding of it. Please do not use bad Peer Pressure to your children and degrade them.

Peer Pressure today

Peer Pressure today consists of two type's, the one most people usually defined peer pressure is the "bad" peer pressure. Then their is a "Good" peer pressure. What is Peer Pressure, most people defined Peer Pressure as to Pressuring your friends to do something they don't want to or to accept. Peer Pressure actual definition is influence exterted to change thier behaviors, morals, and values. Most of your friends will push you to do stuff you don't normally want too do. Even adults or your own parents may think you make bad decisions due to bad parenting. That is not always the correct statement. Friends will try to get you the stuff they want you to do, in this case you need a supportive family, or friends who are not influenced by Peer Pressure. Your Family Will Sometimes know whats best for you and you may not believe them but, most likely they have been in the same situation that you have. If you don't have a strong pact with your family, you could go to a conselour if your in school, if your out of school you could go see one as well. If your a parent and you have a teenage Child who you is making changes for the worst of them. You could talk to them and encourage them to turn their behavior to better them as a human. You could listen to your child and try to figure out what you and your child think is the best choice and try to make a pact.

Direct Peer Pressure

Direct Peer Pressure
Direct Peer Pressure is basically, in front of you face to face and someone is asking you to do something you don't want to do. Many people have this type of peer pressure everyday. Most of the time people want to gang up and get this person to join it. Many parents have face the same problems as their children are. Direct Peer Pressure is the worst way to get pressured in my opinion. It may not look so obvious sometimes, you may just be hanging out with your friends playing basketball could change the way you do stuff. Many people will face this sometimes. Direct Peer Pressure is almost like a set up act for someone to do something. Say someone wants to fight or tell someone they don't do that. They find and ideal place where they see him and block in so he can't get out. Many people skip school because of feared of being directly pressured from other students to do something there not comfortable with. Many parents hope their child makes the best of them when this happens; I think the best way to make complete sure that you are not going to be pressured is to be firm and be self confident when you think you made the choice of what they are being pressured or not. I hope everyone makes a good choice deciding whether not to be doing what you think is best for yourself.